Whether it be saying please and thank you to your waiter/waitress/bartender, helping her with her coat, or having her order first at dinner – the fact that you actually understand the importance of manners will put you ahead of the curve. Manners are increasingly more important these days because they are becoming increasingly more rare. Notice when she changes her hair or buys a new outfit. Pick up that candy she told you she likes, randomly. Ask her how her friend is doing who was sick last week. If you want to show her you are really paying attention to her, really work on active listening. We generally get a bad rap for selective listening or things of the sort. Men are notorious for forgetting little details (hence the million and one commercials about a guy forgetting his anniversary, or something). This is a recurring point in some of my articles because it is equally important as it is overlooked. Given the current state of dating and the level of effort (or lack thereof) that many men put into courtship, here are a few things you can do to show a woman you are serious about her. Trust is not handed over to you, it has to be earned and then it has to be kept. And not just once, but consistently over time. A woman will never believe you if you tell her you are different than the guys who have disappointed her in the past, you have to show her. The fact of the matter is that actions really do speak louder than words. While it has always been the case that a man needs to set himself apart from the crowd in order to get, and keep, a woman’s attention – advancements like social media only increase the intensity of the “competition,” for lack of a better term.
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